PRODUCTHEAD: Coaching is outsourced willpower

PRODUCTHEAD: Coaching is outsourced willpower

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tl;dr

Common challenges leaders encounter are a lack of trust for their teams and executives, a lack of coaching, and letting go of control

How others perceive the value and effectiveness of the product team’s work holds immense transformative power


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For several years I’ve had a succession of personal trainers (PTs) help me with weight training. At the beginning, it was very much about learning the techniques and building up my fundamental fitness level. Even after all this time, I am by no means athletic. Nevertheless, each session gives me a workout, gets me sweaty and a bit out of breath, and occasionally I surprise myself by what I’m able to lift without actually snapping in half.

I’ve noticed a difference between when I have a PT session and when I go to the gym by myself. To begin with I have the confidence that I can run through my training routine. But maybe on the second or third solo visit, I feel that my willpower starts to fizzle out a little bit. I’m just lacking that little push and encouragement from my PT, even if they’re basically just telling me pick heavy things up and put them down again in quick succession.

When I mentioned my predicament to Lovely Wife, she made this incisive observation: having a personal trainer or professional coach is like outsourcing your willpower. Sometimes you are paying them not necessarily to teach you new techniques, but rather to help you achieve the things that you were already capable of doing. They give you that extra little nudge that you otherwise wouldn’t have had by yourself, helping you to dispel any discouraging inner monologue.

Who benefits most from coaching? #

When I think about how I help other people through my product coaching, quite often the people who gain the most from our sessions are not necessarily the ones who need to learn new techniques.

The ones that benefit most are those who simply need to recognise that they are capable of doing all of the things that they want to do. They just need that extra encouragement, or that extra nudge, or even just to have pointed out to them the objective evidence they need to convince themselves that they are capable of doing all of these different things.

So, where does that leave me and coaching? #

I think if you have a surplus of willpower and discipline and self-motivation and belief in yourself then you probably don’t need that much coaching, because you’re effectively acting as your own coach. But — and I’m making a wild assumption here for quite a lot of people — whether we’re tired, stressed out, have taken a bit of a knock professionally, or we’re just in a tough working environment, sometimes we don’t have an abundance of that motivation, discipline and self-confidence. Sometimes we just need to outsource all that to someone else temporarily to help us remember what we’re capable of. That’s what I think is the value of a good coach, whether for professional work or personal fitness.

I’m conscious this may read as a relatively self-serving article that’s saying everyone would benefit from a coach of some variety*. But equally I think it’s about recognising that coaching for some people is about learning new things and for others it is about quelling their inner critic, being reminded of their strengths and regaining the confidence they need to get out there and do their thing.

For you this week #

It’s always valuable to listen in to two great minds in product having an informal and wide-ranging chat. In this episode of the Product Thinking Podcast, CEO and author Melissa Perri interviews leadership coach and author Donna Lichaw. They talk about turning your imposter syndrome to your advantage and how to become the hero of your own story.

You might already know Randy Silver: he co-hosts The Product Experience podcast with Lily Smith, coordinates various communities of practice including CPO Circles and Product in the (A)Ether, and somehow also finds the time to coach product leaders through his firm Out of Owls. He gave a keynote at Mind The Product conference in 2023 providing pragmatic advice on how to handle difficult executives.

Speak to you soon,

Jock

* You would: book some coaching with me :-)



what to think about this week

Becoming the hero of your own story

Melissa Perri welcomes Donna Lichaw to this episode of the Product Thinking Podcast. Donna is a product leader turned leadership coach and the author of The User’s Journey. She joins Melissa to talk about how she helps leaders and executives answer questions like, “how do I get my team excited to show up to work every day?” by becoming the heroes of their own stories.

Find your superpower

[Donna Lichaw / Produx Labs]

Getting aligned with your exec team

As product managers, we’re change agents — it’s a hard role to take on because companies aren’t elastic. At the best of times, it can be a stressful craft due to managing change and dealing with difficult teams. Randy offers three ways to get started in delivering value: prioritisation, people and process.

How to handle difficult executives

[Randy Silver / Pendo]



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How do I make my product roadmap a better communication tool?

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Jock Busuttil is a product management and leadership coach, product leader and author. He has spent over two decades working with technology companies to improve their product management practices, from startups to multinationals. In 2012 Jock founded Product People Limited, which provides product management consultancy, coaching and training. Its clients include BBC, University of Cambridge, Ometria, Prolific and the UK’s Ministry of Justice and Government Digital Service (GDS). Jock holds a master’s degree in Classics from the University of Cambridge. He is the author of the popular book The Practitioner’s Guide To Product Management, which was published in January 2015 by Grand Central Publishing in the US and Piatkus in the UK. He writes the blog I Manage Products and weekly product management newsletter PRODUCTHEAD. You can find him on Mastodon, X (formerly Twitter) and LinkedIn.

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