» When negotiating, don’t pitch, listen

» To minimise residual influence, negotiate each point independently

» When trust is low, consider making a concession contingent on the other party reciprocating

» Conceding because you don’t want to upset the other party is a losing scenario

» For better alignment, leaders should only communicate the why and what of the goal to their teams

» Auftragsklärung facilitates alignment through both top-down and bottom-up goal setting

» Try to communicate your work’s value to stakeholders in terms they will understand

» Alignment is a system in dynamic equilibrium

» One definition of value is the impact of a product team’s work on the company’s success

» To deliver value quickly as a new starter, understand people, problems, context, process and culture

» We rarely show value to users, the business and others affected by our product on the same journey map – why?

» Every decision is a trade-off — deciding what not to do is just as important as deciding what to do

» A good product vision captures customer, user, value proposition and links to organisational objectives

» Interrogate your goals: “For this to happen, what must be true?”, then mark which are facts or assumptions

» Avoid jumping on the first idea — check what problem we think it solves, then ask, “How else could we do this?”

» Take a systematic approach to evaluating multiple solutions to the same opportunity

» ‘Assumption’ is just another word for ‘things we believe’

» When there are many opportunities in contention, assess whether it’s worth solving the problem

» We tend to come up with solutions before defining the problem they solve

» Decisions should be the result of rational and deliberate reasoning, but not all are perfectly rational

» Almost every decision has associated downsides or compromises

» Avoid trying to please people or to allow individuals to dominate the decision-making process

» It’s easy to conflate transparency on the decision-making process, with transparency on the actual decisions

» Humility and authenticity go a long way in building trust

» It is hard both to share data when expected, and to do so in a way that is trustworthy and acceptable to the public

» “Nobody ever read a simple sentence and thought ‘well, that was too easy to understand.’”

» With care it is possible to create valuable products with user data while maintaining trustworthiness

» Use empathy to appreciate the context, needs and pain points of your stakeholders

» Understanding people’s social style helps you influence stakeholders more effectively

» You can use different modes of persuasion to craft a more compelling argument

» Picking the right time to make your point can amplify your persuasiveness